by Angelia Edwards

Created on: December 19, 2008   Last Updated: December 22, 2008

I believe that toddler's should be taught age appropriate chores for self-esteem,independence,and to learn how to work as a team. All of which could be very helpful before starting preschool!

Chores such as wiping off a table,cleaning their own hands,picking up their garbage,and putting up the toys are all good starter chores.Even letting them fold clothes in their own way is a fun chore.I think its cute that my toddler showed interest in turning off the light switch,I can't leave a room with out him reminding me that's his job.The putting garbage in the garbage can job was a little tricky,at first he started throwing anything on the floor in there. So I went through some things on the floor showing him the difference between garbage and toys. Then I practiced with him where each one went and over time he caught on.

Most toddlers get a self-esteem boost when they do something an older sibling or parent does.Just like walking,talking,and potty training makes them feel like a big boy/girl,so do chores as well.I noticed in my own two year old that the more I let him help with the chores described above and showed I was proud,the more he wanted to do them.My favorite one is the help with laundry.My oldest boy will toss all the dirty clothes downstairs and as I pick them up to carry them to the washer my toddler will help carry them. When they are done drying my toddler hands me the clothes out of the dryer as I fold them on the table. Sometimes he even likes to help fold in his own way.I tell both boys good job and thank them. Every time I do laundry my toddler comes running to help. I believe that one is his favorite job.(I like the help with that one myself)!

When it comes time to clean up the toys I start picking them up and ask my toddler if he wants to help mommy. Sometimes he comes over and helps pick up everything. There is even times when he does it himself.I noticed in my toddler that he is becoming more independent in wanting to wash his own hands/face,putting his dishes in the sink,picking up toys,wiping his spills,and even trying to sweep.He is also becoming more eager to help when he notices someone doing a chore.

A toddler gaining more independence is not only good for them,it's very helpful to the parent! It's good to help prepare your toddler more for preschool and nice when a little bit of the work load can be lifted from your shoulders.(What parent wouldn't love that)?

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