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How to get guys to notice you

Ever wonder how to get more guys to notice you? Women spend a tremendous amount of time and preparation trying to get the attention of men. But, why is it that some women attract men like flies, while others languish in anonymity?

Getting a man to notice you is not nearly as complicated as it seems. Men notice all women, but it's important to understand that women attract attention for different reasons. Some women get noticed because of their lack of attire, while others light up a room with their effervescent personalities. Some women command attention because of they are well versed on current events and others because they know every score of every game.

On the other hand, there are other women who are noticed for not having any significant presence at all. These women melt into their environment like chameleons, seemingly begging not to be seen. They have attracted attention, but are quickly dismissed as being a "Plain Jane" or just uninteresting.

To get a men's attention, a woman needs to be like a flower that is either blossoming or in full bloom. She needs to learn the delicate balance of displaying herself, without being a spectacle. And she needs to understand a few simple principles on how to be noticed.

Appearance

It's always important to dress to impress, but you don't have to be a peacock. Revealing too much too soon leaves noting to the imagination, and guys develop preconceived ideas about women based on their appearance.

Clothing that is fitting for the occasion is both practical and makes a statement of self assurance. Wearing hot pants to the bowling alley will certainly get a lot of attention, but for all the wrong reasons. Men always expect women to be neat. There's nothing wrong with keeping it real, but trust me, guys are not interested in women wearing curlers to the grocery store.

Making an Unforgettable Entrance

When entering a room or gathering, have a commanding presence. That doesn't mean you have to be loud or boisterous. A confident, but casual smile lets men know that you are comfortable with who you are. If you wear make-up, it should be natural and appropriate for the time of day. Too much make-up makes a man think that a woman is hiding something.

Walking with a strong, upright stride is also a sign of confidence. It gives the impression that a woman is fit and in good health. Though different men have different tastes in women, most men like women who spend time taking care of themselves, and women who appear fit attract a lot more


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