by Wayne Carter

Created on: December 17, 2008

A recession is not a reason to be discouraged during this Christmas season. Less money on hand does not indicate valuable, priceless gifts will not exchange hands during this wonderful time of the year. For most, anyway, this season means an upcoming chance to renew dedication to themselves, their families, or others for which they care. As well, it is a time of year to teach the true meaning of Christmaswhich is not gifting the most expensive toys and gadgets, but understanding, love, and compassion. So, let us look on the bright side of the current situation, not allow a horrible economy to destroy the pleasure of a spiritual celebration, and sulk every minute moment of enjoyment we are able to from a season of which brings out the finest of even the nastiest Scrooge.

Why not just imagine for a split second the sense of love you can communicate by visiting the parent, the sibling, the uncle, or the aunt who you have not seen in ages. Or, capture the moment of surprise when you telephone a relative who has been dying to hear from you. All of these things cost nothing but signify so much to the person receiving the validation that their position in your life is of grandeur. Observe how your children's eyes light up, when you take them to sing Christmas carols to the neighbors or illustrate the example of caring toward a complete stranger. These gifts are more valuable than the newest gaming system or the hottest pair of shoes or the most luxurious jewelry. One thing about the costly systems and jewelry is they are replaced, lost, returned, stolen, or lose valuethese are not worries when you consider gifts such as those mentioned prior. Moreover, others will be more than happy to return the favor.

I know, for some, none of this sappy stuff will mean a thing, at least not now. This reaction might be due to lack of experience or insight; I refuse to pretend to have the answers. Nevertheless, they will have to come around, grow up, or learn the lesson of Christmas. They might see it when they are not able to give things requested of them, or they should see it when the new season comes and the impact is realized through credit card statements and empty bank accounts. So, until then, buy those particular individuals some of what they want, not all. Because after all, your main excuse for not getting them everything they might want is we are in a recession. Happy Holidays from my family to yours!

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