by Alan Habbaz

Created on: December 11, 2008

I've got the greatest woman in the world! She loves me like a rock like the song goes. She has a son who is always reading my helium articles. He thinks he is a prophet. He keeps telling her I am going to cheat on her. Every time he tells her these things she acts different and treats me with less love. This time around she believes in me. Our love is growing stronger as the time goes on.

It can become very difficult when family gets in the way of relationships. My brothers who can be kind on one hand and evil on the other have been wonderful to my soon to be wife. I have been staying at my brothers apartment in Brooklyn New York for the past 6 months. I was only supposed to stay for the summer.

Well wouldn't you know it. Ann came back into my life again. We had seen each other on and off for 33 years since High School. She has been in relationships most of those 33 years. She has developed into the most wonderful woman I have ever met. Yet we still have our differences.

When we have our differences we always manage to work them out. Sometimes it takes days and sometimes it takes minutes. But when we work them out and get back into the love part of our relationship, things get better and better. I think the reason we feel the we do about each other is because of the caring we have had for each other since the first time we got together 33 years ago.

We had a real long heart to heart talk on the porch of her family's house when we were 16 and 17. It was the summer of 1975. Talk about a some what of a romantic tale. But this is New York and we must deal with the New Yorker mentality. I have been living in the south Florida area for the past 17 years up until this past spring. It is a challenge which I hate when you deal with the typical New Yorker.

She is different though. She is not the typical New Yorker. She has a masters in Psychology and it shows. Her intelligence is far superior to the average man or woman. Any way I am writing this article to her son who keeps spying on me by reading my Helium articles. When love grows it develops into a trusting relationship. The caring that goes into our relationship is what is keeping us strong.

Throughout our lives we have had our difficulties and we understand each other and want to help each other grow spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, and intrinsically. Thank you for being my life, Ann.

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