by Can Tran

Created on: December 07, 2008

As a young guy, I have always been drawn and into older women. When someone asks why some younger men are drawn to older women, I can list several reasons from my own perspective. There have been several women that I have felt drawn and attracted to.
This was not just by looks alone.
There was more to the attraction than just mere looks. But, I can name my first reason for being drawn and attracted to older women.

However, there has to be at least one to eight years in difference between us. I do become attracted to older women, but not that old.

The first reason being is that I could call myself "anti-status quo." Most of the time, I have seen guys my age go after younger women. Some of them gave me their reasons. When I worked at this pizza eatery when I was eighteen, there was this one manager who was a year or two older than I was. One of the things we did to pass the time was talk about women. He told me that he preferred them young. Then he gave me his logic: you can easily train them. I must admit that he is correct in that aspect.

An ex-friend once told me he was into younger girls was because of "dominance." He wanted to "dominate" over them. However, that was not the reason I ended the friendship with him.

So far, they wanted something "easy." However, I did not want something "easy." Plus, I was never into younger women in the first place. I probably still am not into younger women at all.

I can talk about several older women I was drawn to. Plus, I can talk about the reasons I was drawn to them.

I did talk with this one woman up in Pennsylvania. She used to be an exotic dancer. Plus, she was into sex. But, we did not talk about only sex. It turns out that we had a lot in common and shared similar interests. I guess I could say it was more than sex was what attracted me to her.

There was this Chinese-Japanese woman in California a few years older than me. The reason I was attracted to her was that we shared similar interests and tastes in both Japanese anime and video games. Plus, I enjoyed talking with her on a constant basis.

There was this Indian-Chinese woman from Toronto.
She was interesting. We agreed that when we meet, we would get it on with each other. There was this mutual attraction between us. It turned out that she and I shared the same interests and social ideology.
I liked talking to her. There were many things about that woman that caused me to be attracted to her.

There was this Puerto Rican-Filipina woman who is about two years older than

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