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of an invitation to see if it is a look that compliments you. Perhaps a questioning rising of both eyebrows? Would this look like an invitation to that person? Try different mock poses of expression to see how they look on you. You don't want to look unnatural, or like some scary stalker type, you just want to increase your attractiveness to others. You want to look intriguing enough that the other person will want to learn more about you. They have your interest and now you want to get them interested in you! You can tell when you have even remotely succeeded in this task, as they will then continue to glance in your direction, they will be watching you. Take advantage of your opportunity to now show yourself off.

Smile, and don't forget to put it in your eyes, make yourself sparkle! Use what you have been practicing in front of the mirror at home! Show this person exactly how attractive, interesting, and intelligent you are. If you get a scowl in return of your efforts, then you might just be out of luck, but if there is even the smallest hint of amusement or interest then you know that your flirtation is working. You get to keep flirting! You stand a chance of meeting this person, a chance of getting to know this person a little better, and even a chance of possibly dating this person.

While you are developing your flirting style just keep a few things uppermost in your mind. Practice, practice, practice to get your technique, and confidence levels at a level that you can feel comfortable with. Remember that you are human, you are allowed to screw up, and flirting is not an exact science. Be natural, enough practice will make your smile, and your desired expressions or poses come more easily. Flirt with yourself in the mirror so you will see what the other person sees.

Then get out there and don't let that next opportunity pass you by.

Be confident! Be attractive! Be sexy! Be you!

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