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Single, lonely, and want to attract some attention from members of the opposite sex? Not sure how to go about it or even how to identify who is single and who isn't? Relax in the fact that you are not alone. There are millions of other people out there just like you.

Flirting just isn't a skill that most of us were born with, or one that we were generally taught as we aged, so learning to flirt can take a little practice to get right. It is also not an exact science, so it may take a little time to learn how to flirt effectively, and to learn to identify the signs when someone is flirting back at you. Like most other things in life we just have to keep trying, practice makes perfect, and with a little trial and error you will get your method of flirting figured out. As you receive a few positive signs back, you will become more confident and comfortable with your technique. Just don't allow yourself to be frustrated to the point that you give up; allow yourself the time that you need to get this right. We have feelings, and they sometimes get hurt, it is all a part of being human. Keep in mind that a little insecurity is okay, just don't let it take over, or you will never have the chance to succeed at the things that you want most in this life.

Remember that the number one rule of flirtation is "eye contact", feeling someone else looking at us, does get our attention. Most of us have at one time or another had the experience or feeling that someone is staring at us, and it does cause us to look around, to see who it is. Having eye contact with the person that you wish to encourage in your direction is the main key to beginning communication with them. Once you have their eyes focused on you, you are already halfway through succeeding in your quest, you have that "person of interest" looking at you. You have their attention!

From this starting point, you then need to determine if they are single, and if so, are they available? You must also discover if there is the remotest chance that they might want to learn more about you, and if there is, then you need to encourage this interest in you. In other words, it is time to turn on the charm! Keep in mind that practicing this is a good thing!

Spend time in front of your mirror at home learning to smile, and not only with your lips, but also with your eyes. Try making your eyes dance in humor, try them in a complimentary stance, or just to say that you are confident within yourself. Raise one eyebrow in just a hint

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