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Guilt: And The Guilt Complex.
The most destructive force after Nuclear Weapons!
Part One.
This is a negative emotion that can have its origin's well back in a persons' past and be carried well in to their adult years. Along the way it can show itself in disguise using various manifestations. But the bottom line is that it can lead to feelings of suicide at worse or make the people that love and care about them feel very lonely and useless at best. I hope the following allows some people to find peace and that the people that care about them hope. This in a nutshell is a no win situation for anyone.
The Guilt Complex (TGC): Origins:
Most people feel that they have harmed someone, or that some people have harmed them. They may have assisted in either of the above or done nothing to prevent some event or other from happening to a third party.
The other way, although not necessarily called guilt, that can also be just as destructive is when the person is exposed to negative environments or atmospheres: Neglect, indifference, Parents' targets, made to feel inferior, injustice, bullying, abuse, or all of the above. What these all have in common, is emotional manipulation.
This is when the parents use their children as conduits to alleviate or purge themselves of guilt or anger that they maybe carrying for something that they haven't resolved.
If the parents have a very low self worth then they may feel that that is the only option left to them so they carry it on.
Solution: Introduction.
This maybe stating the obvious but TGC can destroy lives, of the people that carry it and for the people that care about and love those who are preoccupied in it. It eats like a Cancer on every level and at all parts of a person's psyche: Mentally, emotionally, and due to stress, their physical health as well.
It can lessen their levels of confidence so they will be inclined to second guess themselves or be annoyingly indecisive. They may also be plagued with an irrational paranoia and swamped with a feeling of being unworthy and that their opinions are as unwelcome as they feel. In a nutshell it can affect people's motivation, their self belief/worth/esteem and long term happiness.
They will try herbal remedies or diets along the way, they may even find out that they are Hypoglycemic, all of which can and do help. They will go to their doctor and be prescribed anti-depressants, which they maybe on and off and on for years. They will help but like losing weight you need to do two things to
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