by K.C. Jean Kellam

Created on: November 29, 2008   Last Updated: December 23, 2008

All too often, our dear four footed friends find themselves in shelters and placed with adoption agencies during family crisis. Military deployment, soldiers on longer than expected tours, and relocation are all realities that take a toll not only on the entire family but also the family dog. Being prepared for change and including your pet can alleviate stress and the possibility of giving up your beloved best friend when situations, such as deployment, arise.

A military family with pets should plan well in advance for their care with trusted friends or family members who are willing to help. Be clear that deployment can last longer than expected and other changes could affect the amount of the time the dog will be left in their care. Hopefully, it is someone the dog knows well but if not, give your dog opportunities to develop a relationship with them and adjust to their home. Maybe short overnight or weekend visits, routine activities, and other opportunities to see how your dog acts around his foster family, will give everyone a chance to feel out the situation ahead of time.

If you choose to leave your pet with family or friends, be sure to have clear instructions, all of the medical information on your pet, and plenty of money to cover any expenses that may arise. Neglecting to provide continuous care for your pet could be considered a form of abandonment and is an unfair burden on whomever is caring for your dog. Make sure to have backup people available and provide their information as well to the foster family. If possible, have another friend or family member check in on your pet to make sure they are being properly cared for.

Another option is working with your vet, a boarding kennel, or even a rescue group. Long term services are sometimes available through them, especially for military deployment. Rescue groups will consider your request, usually with a donation to the group. Your vet may even know of families or other organizations that help military personnel with their pets during deployment.

Most importantly, remember your pet had no say in your profession or in their new, transient situation. Take good care to make this an easy transition and have plans in place well ahead of time so they changes are less stressful. Coming home from a deployment to find your pup safe and happily waiting your return makes all the difference in the world. You want your family and your pet to feel safe, confident, and secure during these difficult times, knowing everyone will be reunited soon and everyone was accounted for. Remember, never leave a man (or dog) behind!

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