by Bella A. Bowman

Created on: November 25, 2008

It's all about the competition. It is also a flourish to feel better than someone else. Maybe that's when the insecurities kick in; seeing someone prettier than herself; someone who has more money and better clothes, or maybe the fact that someone is dating her dream boy. Being catty is part of the female nature, they think feebly with their minds and hearts. The sad thing is that they are probably the most sensitive being thought possible and when emotions override, they tend to overlook the bigger picture.

As far as I can remember, drama often occurred back in my high school and college days. This is probably typical for many girls and young women. Circumstances are much more severe, especially when being in a society consisted of clich groups divided from one another because of inflicted stereotypes. Theoretically, the labels make females recognize the flaws about themselves and it may come as a reminder of what they don't have or will ever have what they've always desired. So therefore; this passive self-administration will be aligned to another clique, targeted at a specific female with jealousy because of natural envy. Some hide it well but others may portray psychotic behaviors.

Why do females have this nature of being envious of whoever has their most designated passion? I believe we were born to be driven into directions of life using nothing but our hormones. Our hormones are to not be interpreted as the monthly menstrual periods and the crankiness that come with it. Hormones are equivalent to the intuitional vibes that we can feel from anybody and it is a natural gift. It's the mental and emotional weapon used by females to determine which paths should be taken and how they feel about it. When we feel like someone brings a particular roadblock in a personal trail, especially by another female, this becomes as a huge threat. Think of it like a territorial mark made by a lion compared to an inferior feline. Once a female step across a sacred landmark appraised as the most prized possession, all goes to hell. This is carried by egoism and pride.

Many say that men have the highest sense of haughty by its masculinity where the opposite gender is gullible because of its strength and power. I would have to disagree. There is a sense of hypnotization that a woman can wreak as an effect upon; the male species, the ability to get away with a speeding ticket, a good deal on a car and house through senseless but flamboyant negotiation by bashing the lashes, and the ingenious cogent to keep our legs closed.

Women are born to be strong, competitive, and emotional. Because of these traits, we recognize the values and the essentials that come with it. There are times when the female code of ethics are temporarily invisible but that's only because we want to experience life for once without being viewed as the sacrosanct piece that cannot be allowed to enjoy life.

Thank God for the male species, though. If it weren't for them, cat fights would always occur up to the point where there would be nothing but breasts and vaginas. Imagine that? I think not. What stabilizes the spiteful hatred in a uterine sense is the balance of the penis. This is a minor part of our lives that need a spiteful dose of satisfaction just to cease the envious feeling of shoddy loneliness, which again, targets another female.

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