by Todd Henderson

Created on: January 17, 2007   Last Updated: March 22, 2011

Ever wonder how some guys get all the ladies when it seems like you can't even get ONE to look in your general direction? WELL, if this seems familiar let me tell you a few tips from past experiences!
1.)Most importantly, BE YOURSELF! Guys, women can tell when you're putting on a show for them and some of them may think it's cute for awhile, it gets old and the want to get to know the REAL you!

2.) Also very important, have some confidence in yourself!  Ever seen guys that weigh like 500lbs picking up on supermodels? It's because they have the confidence to be themselves and be proud of who they are! Looks ain't everything fellas!

3.) Know when to be sweet, romantic, sarcastic...etc. There is a time and a place for everything!  Have ya heard about the "nice guys"? They are all too often, TOO SWEET!  Now I'm NOT saying be an ass! But guys that are always sweet, tend to be clingy and SUFFOCATE the poor woman to death! And for heavens sake BE CREATIVE!  The 12 roses and a box of chocolates is so over used!  Do something special for her so even if it doesn't work out, she'll always remember you for that one thing you did for her!

4. )If you're gonna pursue a girl, do it because you want to be with her! NOT because you want to "hook up" with her for a night!  Women tend to be emotional and if you play them for a fool and never call them again it makes them feel trashy, unloved, and more guarded than before. DON'T USE THEM FOR SEX!

5.) Learn something about her. I'm not telling you to stalk her every move but pick up on the little things. Learn what kind of flowers she likes and send them to her on any random day. It makes them feel special. Even if you don't know the girl but you are trying to work your way in (example: see her at the bar) learn some little things about her: what's she drinking, whats she wearing, what kind of people is she around.

6.) Tell her that she looks pretty, NOT SEXY! Guys, don't make them feel like they are a piece of meat, make them feel loved like they should!

7.) And last, if shes not interested, DON'T push the issue! She wants to be just friends, consider yourself lucky to still be able to be around her! Who knows...maybe something will develop later on down the line?

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