by Angela Diggs

Created on: November 17, 2008   Last Updated: November 24, 2008

What makes a man sexy is his character. A man who possesses good character will do what is right because it is the right. He will not do it to be seen or recognized. When a man does this, it causes him to stand out from the rest. He automatically sets himself apart from the crowd. A man like this attracts my attention in a heart beat. This is one of the most important characteristics for me. Below are additional qualities I look for.

GOOD LOOKS

I'm not going to lie to you. For a man to get in the door, he must be attractive. I am not blind. The moment I see him, I will know whether he is on my level looks wise or not. Looks are important because we are visual creatures.

INTELLIGENCE

A man with smarts is always sexy to me. I like a man who can challenge me in every way. If he can teach me something new, the relationship will be exciting. A man who has his education has power and that is what I like.

GOD FEARING

A man who puts God first is a man for me. This type of gentleman usually knows the bible and implements what the word says. He demonstrates it in his daily life.

HEALTH CONSCIOUS

A sexy man takes care of his body and does not avoid going to the doctor. He is not afraid of admitting when he is sick. He eats right and exercises.

SENSE OF HUMOR

If a man can make me laugh he's got my heart. I enjoy being around someone who knows how to have a good time. This is important. Life is full of ups and downs but sometimes you need to laugh.

MATURE

A mature man knows how to handle conflict well. They do not become easily frustrated or angry. They take things one day at a time and I like that. This is the type of man I can come to and vent.

SPONTANEOUS

Being unpredictable is great sometimes. If a man knows how to change up the routine, this keeps things interesting. I like a man who can surprise me with flowers when I least expect it.

MYSTERIOUS

A man who knows how to leave some mystery is the sexiest. I remember growing up being attracted to men who left me wondering about them all the time. They never let you know exactly how they feel. They give you little clues every now and then but that is it. This type of man will stay in your mind.

KNOWS HOW TO LISTEN

A man who knows how to listen is very romantic. When I am having a hard day it is nice to have someone to come home to who knows how to listen. Listening means hearing my words without judgment. It is allowing me to express myself without trying to fix the problem. This type of man is the kind I fall in love with.

Overall, these are the qualities that make a man sexiest to me

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