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gradually introduce them to a bit more chaos.

- Socialization

The ideal age to socialize a dog is the first six months of their lives - when they are older, it is more difficult, but it is possible. Proceed slowly -start with a quiet dog or two first, then a few new, calm people, then new situations. Always stay calm yourself, although it may be easier said than done, but eventually your new dog will gain confidence, and you will become more confident in them.

- A Doggie Friend

A four-legged friend may be the best cure for a timid dog. Not only will they have someone they can relate to, but a calm, confident pal will provide the right energy and a good role model. Make sure their new friend is calm and easy-going. Don't leave them unattended until you are VERY sure they are going to get along - after several weeks if not longer.

As an example, our Spudz was quiet and fairly well-behaved when we first adopted her, but obviously shy and prone to flinching when petted. She didn't bark - ever. A few weeks after we adopted Mackenzie, Spudz started to come out of her shell and interacting more, flinching less and yes, barking. Now when she gets started woofing, she generally refuses to stop, but we know she's now comfortable with us.

- A Word About Fear-Biting

In my experience, dogs that bite generally do so out of fear. That is not to say that all timid dogs bite (Spudz certainly doesn't and has never offered to!), but rather that it's a possibility if your dog is pushed too far. Knowing this ahead of time will help you plan ahead and prevent a situation where your dog will feel the need to bite.

For example, if your dog hides in his crate and refuses to come out, fasten a short length of rope to his collar so you can coax them out without having to reach into their "space". Make sure children and newcomers respect the dog's space too, at all times. If you don't have a line on their collar, use a slip-leash (used in the show ring) rather than grabbing for their collar.

Timid dogs always tug at our heartstrings and it is within our power to help them, if we avoid feeling sorry for them. Give them time, a safe place, and show them what a normal life is like - and maybe a friend or two - and they will soon come out of their shell.

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