by Pat Gray

Created on: November 16, 2008   Last Updated: January 02, 2009

A timid dog may be just a little shy or downright terrified. It doesn't mean they were abused physically, although this is often the case. Sometimes just uncertainty and change can drive a well-adjusted, but naturally reserved dog into fear and cowering at the least noise or confusion.

It can take weeks or even months for any new dog to accept a new home and family. If a dog was severely abused or is just naturally timid, it may take even more time to convince them that all is now right with their world. They may always be reserved and quiet - but that doesn't necessarily mean they are unhappy.

- Life Without Pity

The worst thing you can do for a timid or frightened dog is to feel sorry for them and try to soothe away their fears. Trying to comfort away a timid dog's fears will have the exact opposite of the desired effect. When your dog is acting timid, the best thing is to ignore the behavior completely, and carry on as if nothing is wrong. Take a deep breath and remember that your hesitation will be feeding their fear. Remember that you are the "role model" and need to set a good example - and you can!

I've witnessed a relatively normal dog become hesitant and shy because the foster care worker petted and fussed the dog when she (dog and care worker, too) was nervous. This same kind hearted woman has driven another dog into a becoming an unadoptable fear-biter, because she continues to baby him when he is scared and refuses to correct him when he is naughty. We know he can be a normal dog, because when he stayed with us for several months, he was a completely different dog.

I stress this point because I think it is THE major reason timid dogs don't learn to overcome their fears, preventing them from having a happy life.

- Safe Place

Your home should be a safe place for your dog, and in a chaotic house they will need a quiet place to relax and recharge. Don't shut them away from the rest of the world - this will only make them worse, but don't force them into the middle of the activity either. A quiet spot where they can watch the action is best, and a crate with an open door is ideal.

- Exercise

A timid dog will want to hide away from the world, and many prefer to spend more time under the bed or curled in a corner of the sofa than out and about. A good walk, in a quiet neighborhood to start, will give your dog needed exercise, will activate their noses and curiosity and will provide an excellent bonding opportunity for you and your dog. As they begin to relax,

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