Well im going to get straight to the point.

1. If your man tells you he has to go into work early 7 hours early and you happen to call him during the day and his cell phone is off all day until its time for him to be at work. Something is wrong. Theres someone else involved.

2. If he is buying womens jewlery online and you just happen to see the email receipt. And you wait around to see if its for you. He's cheating.

3. If he comes home late from work complaining it has been a long day making up bogus stories saying he has been at the bar with work friends and you have already called to check to see where he was at and he rushed you off the phone. Hes cheating@

4. If he's at work and you hear a woamen in the background trying very hard to distract him and get his attention saying wird things to him. its probly his other woman.

5. If he has a picture phone and you look at his pictures and theres woman and children in the pictures and video. Its probly his other woman and her kid. How come your children arent on there.

6. If he always mentions a certain female name at work its probly because its his other woman!

7. If he acuses you of things and blames problems at home or with the children and everything else on you. Then hes probly trying to pick an argument so he can find reasons to get out of the house or to say he wants to leave you and your kids be hind. Its probly because hed rather run off like a punk and be with the woman in the picture, on the voicemail, and in the background talking to him at work while your on the phone trying to have a conversation with him!

8. If he gets mad and tries to discourage you from going anywhere if your mother invites you out to diner or to the bar because you never go out of the house except to go to the food market or to pick up the kids from school. Its probly because he is doing so much wrong dating other woman that he has to find reason to acuse you or to hold you back.

9. If your a stay at home mom and have a lot of children and you want to get a job but he says stupid little smart stuff to discourage you from going to find one, its because he's afraid and guilty and probly thinks everybody else is like him and has to have a side affair at work.

10. If you have been together for five years and havent got married yet and he keeps avoiding the subject and getting an instant adittude, its probly because he has no intentions in settle downa just wasting valuable time when you could be married.

11. Finally if you look at his ebay invoice and find a cheap $20 wedding ring set that is the exact same replica of the set you wanted it because hes cheating!

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