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or appears calm and comfortable with your presence, you may show him some light affection, such as a scratch behind the ears. Nevertheless, your next step is to show him some leadership over any amount of affection you wish to offer him.

-Strong Leadership-

Anxiety requires strong leadership in the best interest of the dog, which is the direct opposite of our desire to comfort them through their panic. Showing affection to a dog when they exhibit anxiety merely encourages the negative behavior. Timid dogs show phobias to a variety of scenarios and objects, such as riding in cars, leashes, other dogs and unknown people. Our leadership enables them to overcome these phobias by way of direction and positive reinforcement.

Just as we allow the timid dog to approach us, we must allow the timid dog to approach other people and objects. This will not always happen by his volition, so occasionally, we must create a positive association with the undesirable object. You should only use treats sparingly, as treats encourage dogs to work for food instead of consistent routine- but occasional use is helpful.

If the dog fears a leash, create a positive association by carrying the leash around with you and rewarding him when he approaches. Follow the guide of his comfort level and only attempt attachment of the lease when he is not fearful. If your dog fears visitors, instruct your visitors to ignore your dog and give them treats to hold in their hands in case he chooses to approach them.

Don't be afraid to think outside of the box, sometimes creativity is our only hope for behavioral recovery. Cesar Millan, or "The Dog Whisperer", frequently uses unconventional methods for handling canine anxiety. One notable incident is when he walked a dog by holding its head and tail up with a leash. Manual direction of body language, such as lifting the tail, will send the dog's brain into feelings of confidence.

-Routine and Relaxation-

Maintain a consistent routine to alleviate some of the dog's anxiety. When he knows what is expected and what happens each day- he becomes less fearful. The most important aspect of the routine is exercise. Exercise relieves built up tension, thus easing the body and mind. Additionally, wearing out the dog zaps him of the energy required for fear. Walk him daily for a minimum of thirty minutes to alleviate stress and strengthen your bond; however, the more rigorous exercise, the better.

Focus on your own mental health and attitude for a stronger bond with the dog. If you are anxious, he senses this and becomes anxious himself. Assume strength, confidence and calm leadership to gain his trust. Always use a calm voice to direct the dog and never, under any circumstance, scream at him. Touch is helpful to direct the dog, but never hit or physically harm him for punishment. The only meaningful punishment to a dog is a quick sign of your disapproval and redirection to positive behavior.

Affection is only appropriate when the dog is calm and relaxed. This teaches him that a calm state of mind is desirable and rewarded. Again, never show affection to a dog in any other state of mind, especially during fear. Do not allow yourself to focus on the negative aspects of the timid dog's life, as he does not need your sympathy- he needs guidance and appropriate attention.

When we learn how to view and respect dogs for their inherent traits, we learn how to work with them through any behavioral problems. Helping a timid dog requires time, patience and the strength to help them regain their inborn confidence. If you mess up, it is okay- forget about it and move on- because tomorrow is a brand new day for working with your rescue dog and creating the positive outlook you both yearn to own.

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