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Explanations of the fear of being loved

Fear is replaced with love by letting it all go and by realising that it's mostly only an attitude that can be changed only by love.

What can I do to turn my life around, take charge of my life, and to develop a new and better positive attitude? Is it only fear that is preventing me from doing this? If I keep living in and from this fear, that's all I will ever get, fear and feelings of that fear controlling me. If I'm in the middle of this fear, how can love ever find me, or be allowed to help me, then?

"But we need not fear that we can lose anything by the progress of our soul. Our soul may be trusted to the very end."

This is a quote from the great American philosopher, Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 1882).

Emerson means here that fear never really, in the end, holds you up on your path or journey as soul, because fear never does really ever affect your soul. It reaches up towards your soul and blocks the full connection possible from your soul, but in the end it never reaches as high as the level of love in which soul resides, and has its home.

As Emerson says, in the end soul always wins out over fear and always progresses forwards as soul following only love, though sometimes slowed down by the heavy burdens and baggage's of fear being held and carried by its lower bodies.

Your journey is always more awarely quicker for you in affect by living only consciously from love, but you often need to go through fear first to be able to do this. The whole story of soul is written from fear, as it lifts itself from fear, learning on its way towards only love, from its own experiences of this fear, and then progressively moving past all fear, towards all love.

At this stage you are only living from the light of your soul in its heart of love, and not so much anymore from the depths of darkness and fear adhering to the lower bodies. The lower bodies fear where they are, until they can grow enough in stature and maturity to see fully the light, without it blinding them when now coming fully from themselves, and when, only paradoxically, they do not know, that it is really only coming from themselves.

Fear is a negative emotion that controls you, by not allowing you to live from love, and this disconnects you from the love coming through to you from the real you, and which some people call your soul.

This is why you feel lost and out of sorts, because the fear cuts you off, isolates you and restricts you. And so that then when you look out there and see even more fear coming towards


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