by Danielle Reid

Created on: November 09, 2008   Last Updated: June 01, 2011

There are many issues to be thoroughly looked at when considering whether a child should be allowed to attend after-school activities and which ones. Only when each avenue has been explored can the decision be made.

What type of activity is it?

Is this class or activity really going to benefit your child in any way? For example, a girl in 3rd or 4th grade may think it would be fun to go to cheerleading clinic, but since they won't be able to try out for a few years, at least, is that really necessary at this age? Is the school system they are in one that attends competitions at the high school level? The same can be said of gymnastic classes. While they are attractive to young girls, is it worth the money if they are not going to one day be competing? Maybe a course on swimming would be better suited to this age group if it's physical activity that is preferred.

Is there a fee?

Some activities will require this. Is it a reasonable amount and does it all have to be paid at sign-up? If so, this may not be the best choice. If your child loses interest half-way through, you have basically lost half the money you spent on it. And the last thing you want to do is force your child to attend only because it's already been paid for. My parents used to take my daughter to a class each Thursday. The cost was $3.00 each night and payment was required only if she was present.

How often and how long?

How many nights a week is the activity held? One or two may seem fine, but if the class lasts more than, say, an hour, do you really want your child to be investing that much time in it? And is it only your child putting in the time, or is it necessary for you to be present also?

In my own experience, there was yet another consideration....what time is the class? My children attend a school which is directly affiliated with our church. At one time, this was not in the school district where we lived, so there was no bus service. I drove her to and from school every day. So, for her to attend an activity at the school, it needed to be one right after classes ended. This way, I was not having to make yet another trip.

We were fortunate enough to find the perfect thing for two of my children. Each Tuesday from 3:00 to 4:00 was a chess club. There was no fee. It lasted a reasonable amount of time. They were learning something which taught patience and concentration, and I simply had to leave an hour later to pick them up.

Such activities can seem to be wonderful, educational ways

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