by Nanda Karunanayake

Created on: November 04, 2008   Last Updated: November 13, 2008

Each person is specific in character and apperaance. In the other hand attitude of the person who is looking difers and one person might attract someone and it will not be the same for the other person. Beauty is not in object but in the eyes of the person who look at the object.

When someone is well dressed there is a posibility to increase the attractiveness for the opposite sex and also people who are groom themselves well attract people more than others. There are lot of fashion adivice, fashion shows and tips to grrooming and according to Fashion Designers anyone can be made attractive with matching clothes using eye catching vibrant colour combinations and fitting tailoring etc. Inner beauty is the most important factor of any individual. When your inner is beautiful it is reflected from your outer appearance.

Attractiveness is linked to our innate nature which is everybody is attractive. Like a gem your have to cut and polish in order to be more attractive. It says first impression is often more important. Attractiveness has far more to do with inner beauty than physical appearance. Egoistic or selfish people who are even thouth they are attractive in physical appearance they cannot built lasting relationship with others. When we meet a person for the first time, what everyone of us will do is judge the person.

Judement is from his or her physical apperance. At this time if anyone who has an attractive look is at advantage. In our subconcious mind we have a picture of a model wherther female or male and we are matching the person in front of us with the model in our mind.If the person is close or similar to the model in our heart or mind then we judge him or her as attractive. Physical attraction is the first impression but more imortant aspects of attractivenss is the mannerism and behaviour.
Some people are more attractive at the first sight but because of their aggressivenss , demanding atttidue ruin the the relationship.

If a person is attractive from the point of view of majority then such people have poor inner beauty in general because they rely on the outer appearance and they have confidence on them. Instead of not so attractive people tend to look for alternatives and such people are most probably rich with inner qualities. If you have the opportunity to keeping company with an attractive person for sometime you will forget the physical appearance shortly but you will look for inner beauty or qualities of the person and accordingly it can change your likeability.

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