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The qustion that everyone asks themselves is. Why do relationships fail? I don't think that is a topic that can easily be explained by any means. But as for what I think! With relationships its not just about whether or not the two people like each other or whether or not they have anything in common.

It seems that at the beginning of the relationship two people love what they have, everything is new and exciting and just wanting to be discovered. The two are just wanting to learn everything there is to know about one another as if you have nothing to hide. It seems that at the beginning of a relationship everything is really exciting and wonderful, you two seem to have no problems and everything is perfect.

But as the relationship seems to grow it just seems that the two start to depend on one another more and more everyday. Things seem to change and shift just a little as the two are together! It seems the longer the two are together the more they get to know one another, the more they seem to get on one anothers nerves. The more they actually get to know each other, all their little quarks and all the things that everyone else finds annoying.

It seems that with most relationships last years, possibly the rest of your life. But as far as everyone else goes things may not be that easy. Things may be a lot worse! Things may not last but a few weeks, but if that happens. Why is that people ask themselves what went wrong?

Why do people ask themselves why their relationships fail? Why do they think that its the relationships fault? Maybe its not the relation, maybe its just the people involved. Not everyone is meant to be together and sometimes when they try, things don't really go the way they want. Sometimes the reason why the relationship does fail, its because the two people are lonely and just need someone to fill their time.

Most people just don't want to be alone and just need someone else to hang onto. Sometimes is was never about a relationship at all, but only having someone to talk to. It just seems to me just as much as relationships fail, its that much harder to actually find a relationship. I mean as much as people don't like admit it! Things don't ever work out the way they want it to! Most people are never really interested in have a relationship that works, it seems that most people in the world thrieve on a disfunctional relationship.

But for the most part the reason that most relationships fail from what I can think of is they love the drama. But the fact is most people don't just wonder why their relationships fail, they let them. The fact is when two people have problems in their relationships, they just let things fall apart. They sometimes think that the other person is going to come back and everything is going to be fine, but when that doesn't happen thats when things fail. Things fail when no one comes back to take responsibly for what they have done and what had happened.

But the fact is nothing is ever simple! Things happen and things change, but no matter what happens. Things happen and relationships fail and there is nothing that anyone can do about it. Sometimes its just better to let things happen and to let things fail no matter how much people don't want them to. Its better to just let things go and let things happen in their own way, when there is no pressure for anything to happen. Or fail!

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