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are the signs of emotional abuse and are much more difficult to see. They are also more difficult to investigate but you still have the responsibility to report.

Sudden shyness or introverted behavior in a child not normally quiet. Sudden obsession with dramatic play involving aggression or submission.

Sudden change in eating or toileting habits. Frequent visits to the bathroom or avoidance of the bathroom.

Aggression shown toward teachers or other students in children that have not been aggressive before. This can be verbal or physical.

There are not as many signs of emotional abuse as the child is often manipulated by the parent to hide the abuse. They can be very adept at hiding the signs and talking around the issue. They often have parents who have charisma skills so that the child will "side" with the parent if questioned. This is the sad truth of emotional abuse and is so hard to find and treat.

The way you can help with children like these after you have done your reporting, is be supportive and engage the child in converations about topics other than the trauma. Listen if they need to talk but don't make promises to "not tell" anyone what they tell you. You may need to make follow up reports so remain gently observant.

These come from my years as a teacher in various settings, and some parents are blatant about their abuse and refuse to admit they are doing it. Others see the error in their ways and get help, and for those we keep on trying to expose their poor choices.

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