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Maintaining your sanity during and after a divorce

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Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real; but only for a SEASON.
Some others come into our life to share and learn lessons that will last a lifetime. They stay with us until our very end or theirs; sharing all they need to give; all we need to receive. When the lesson is done they move on.


It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime." (Author unknown).
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A s I read the final lines, I understood my world was never coming to its end at all. The time had come for me to learn the lessons my partner was sent to teach me; forgiveness and gratitude. In that very moment I decided all was forgiven and closure must be attained.
The very next day, I spoke to my spouse like I'd never done before. I forgave him and let him know I was truly grateful he was the Angel the Universe sent to help me and my daughter, in our time of need. I told him I'd come to terms with the reality that our time together had come to its end. I wished him well and offered an honest friendship in return for all he's done for us. I also promised an amicable separation and divorce on my part and asked him for the same.
Once our conversation was over, I forgave myself for my own mistakes and vowed to live a life filled with happiness, joy and love. I released all the anger I had built up inside me by spending a few hours alone with nothing else but my thoughts. I viewed my life through honest eyes and became my best friend; once again.
I now live a happier life and the universe rewards me with new and positive experiences every day.

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