by Faron

Created on: October 23, 2008   Last Updated: October 30, 2008

Falling in love for the first time can be the experience of a life time. Love is not always the movie moment that we all expect when we are young. Love is simply put one of the messiest emotions the human body can ever experience. There are some sure fire ways to know if you are falling for the big "L" though.

One of the biggest and most obvious signs is when you just can't stop thinking about that other person. When you know you should be doing something important but, you just can't help to run off into a daydream about that person. You can't concentrate on anything important and you are constantly frustrated when you are unable to be near that person. You may have constant urges to pick up the phone and call them even if you've called them fives times already that day.

Another good sign is your body language, conversational choice, and mood. Are you happy and smiling constantly? The moment you start humming or whistleing while in public, you have fallen hard. Of course you are not going to break out in some big dramatic musical in the middle of your office or something but, maybe you are discreetly humming the words to some sappy love song you heard earlier on the radio.

Your conversational choice give away is when all you can talk about is that special someone. Going on and on to your friends, family, and anyone you can get to listen about how wonderful or funny that person is. You may notice some annoyance in these peoples expressions as you carry on and they may keep trying to change the subject but, some how you'll just keep going back to it.

Sign number three is when another sexy figure of the oppiosite sex walks by and you don't even notice. When you loose all attractions to other people and easily disregard a daringly flirtatious remark made in your benifit.

The final and most difficult sign to spot is that one indefinite second when you realize that you could live without this person but, that you don't want to. That one moment when you feel an extreme pain that runs through your entire body with the idea of that special someone leaving you. A sorrow and a longing that you can not explain and that is completely different from any other feeling you've ever felt. When you feel this moment it'll sneak up on you like a shadow in the night. You may be laying on the couch cuddling with that someone or watching some tragically romantic movie all by yourself when it happens. No matter how this moment finds you though you will know without a doubt that you have fallen in love and that nothing as you know it will be the same.

Finding love is not always a grand geusture in the sand or a knee popping, mind blowing kiss that leaves you limp. Keep your heart and mind open and that one great love that you desire will most surly find you in the moment.

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