by Cristis Williams

Created on: October 23, 2008   Last Updated: November 26, 2010

A Relationship can be made up of lots of emotions or feelings, When you or someone you know is in a relationship always, make sure you are conscious of what is going on around you.

Do not be blinded by Love, Looks, or The way a person smiles at you, always read between the Lines and you might find something that you were not looking for but needed to Know, For Example a "Red Flag"!

Red flags in Relationships are Signs that your Relationship with a significant other is definitely Failing or starting on the opposite side of Good. There are Hundreds of Red flags or warnings in a relationship, but here are a few off the top:

1. Your partner may act Secretive, suspicious or even defensive, Typically when you have a concern you are addressing.

2. Jealous or possessive, You might be just talking to another male or female and all of a sudden they get mad at you for no apparent reason.

3. Does not like to Help you With simple things Like chores, This indicates Laziness.

4. Getting attached or falls in Love to quickly, the Person may have a problem with themselves in a sense of control or has no self esteem.

5. Gets Self absorbed or only talks about his/her self, The person is self centered and is only interested in talking about himself/herself.

6. Is an aggressive driver most likely he/she is a aggressive person or is not patient.

The People with these characteristics Have some issues to resolve in themselves before they associate them with someone else.

So you ask How can I make my relationship better and stronger. First you need Relationship Help!

Relationship help is When one partner or both partners get help with there relationship to solve a problem that keeps happening or to Make a relationship stronger and survive Longer.

To get relationship help I am going to point out a few things you can do:

1. Fighting with a wall, HUH? what I mean when I say fighting with a wall is when someone is yelling and the other person is simply ignoring them, This my Friends is not a good idea. Ignoring someone can make that person even more mad you both need to talk out the issue.

2. When you or your Partner is angry make sure You calm down before saying another word, no one Likes to be hollered at so be calm relax and talk about the issue in a mature manner.

3. "Ouch that Hurt" When someone hits you Physically this is one of the biggest red flags out there, If you decide to stay in the relationship, you will never succeed in making it better and you surely will never win, In my opinion "Get out as soon as you can."

4. Get professional counseling, Counselors are there to help you and listen not all are bad!

I hope this article was very informational to you, Always remember If you are in a "Red flag type of Relationship" be very cautious. You are not alone!

Thank you

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