by Yusef Rashad

Created on: October 23, 2008

If you're reading this article because you want to please your woman, it is my pleasure to commend you, because you just did something that would please her more than anything you took the time and effort to do something for HER. Something, anything, just to please her. It shows that you actually want to please her, and the thought really does count, don't let anyone tell you different.

So if I may, I'd like to offer you the benefit of my hard earned insight on the matter. It's not exactly a how-to, or steps to a better relationship. There's plenty of that kind of stuff out there. Right now, I just want to impart some simple, everyday, knock it out of the ballpark, batting tips to help you with your game my Top 5. They're not written in stone. Experiment at will, make it your own. Just remember, it's all about her, not you. If you can swallow that, you're more than half way there.

5- Whatever you love and admire about her, make it your theme song
What do you see in her? What did you fall in love with in the first place? What is it about her that makes her so special to you? What do you find attractive about her? Does she have talent, like cooking? Does she have a way of making other people feel good? Is she generous with her time and compassion? Take inventory of her and let her know she's got game, she's got assets, she's the 7448 in your world (in a good way of course)! Sing her praises, make her feel beautiful, make sure she knows she's not just any woman she's the woman!

4- Master HER sexual language
We could go on and on about this one, but we won't. Look, it's real simple find out how she likes it and give it to her just like that! Isn't that what we all need, for our partner to care enough to please us the way we want to be pleased? To receive, you gotta give. To put any more thought into it than that is just over complicating things. I should add, though, that it goes beyond just the physical. You must get into her head and heart to achieve maximum cruising altitude.

3- Support her passions, let her express herself
Have you ever been mocked about your interests, your aspirations, your personality, your ideas, or for simply being who you are? Then you know that feeling. Nothing says "you're nothing and I don't care about you" like mocking and denigrating. Who does that to the person they love? I don't get it. Ignoring your woman's interests is just as bad. Don't you want to be her biggest fan, her biggest cheerleader? Don't you want her to turn to you for support

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