by Jeffrey A. Moore

Created on: October 23, 2008   Last Updated: November 26, 2008

So, your little boy is finally turning into a young man is he? Does he seem drab with that squeaky voice and that baby stubble sprouting on his face? Teaching a young man to shave is a proud moment for most parents and it's a lot easier than teaching him about the birds and the bees, too.

To start, if at all possible, a parent should purchase a couple different types of razors, creams or gels, and after shave ointments. Allow your son to decide for himself, over time, which type he prefers. People's faces vary in shape and texture and what you might prefer for yourself just might irritate him. There are also many options in the electric variety. Electric shavers are very convenient, but usually don't shave as closely as your typical razor does.

Demonstration is a good teaching tool when it comes to shaving. If you are a woman teaching a teen boy to shave you might want to flip the razor around backwards so you don't begin to grow baby stubble yourself!

Ok, let's get to it.

~Use warm to hot water

*The hotter the water, the better the shave will be. Hot water opens the pores and offers a closer shave that is healthier for the face.

~Lathering up

*Creams and gels offer more lubrication than foams and they will help better prevent razor burn and ingrown hairs. No teen boy wants to walk around with cuts and bumps on his face. It's hard enough being a teenager as it is without the added incentive for kids to poke fun at him.

*Have him apply the shaving lubricant to the tips of his fingers and then apply the lubricant to his face, spreading the lubricant evenly throughout.

*Try making it a fun thing the first time around to lighten the mood. Make the boy feel at ease and more comfortable.

~Using the razor

*Never use a dull razor and make sure the boy understands NOT to apply pressure to his face with the razor.

*Allow the razor to smoothly glide across the face, going with the grain of the face. The grain of the face is considered to be the direction opposite of the rough, stubbly feeling of growth. Downward is commonly the grain. Upward is commonly against the grain. After learning to shave with the grain properly, shaving against the grain will give an even closer shave. That skill the boy will acquire in time.

*Rinse the razor often with hot water. Keeping the razor clean provides a closer, less irritating shave.

~Aftershave

*Once the face has been cleanly shaven, splash cold water on the face and pat dry. The cool sensation is completely normal and he will learn feels quite good after he has grown used to shaving.

*Aftershave will burn a little at first, but it is essential in keeping a clean, irritation free face.

Again, teaching a teen boy to shave is a time of bonding that will always remain. Make it fun and enjoyable to help ease his mind and make him more comfortable.

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