by Emily Comedis

Created on: October 23, 2008   Last Updated: November 07, 2008

Signs of Someone Falling In Love

One sign of someone falling in love is when you begin to see the good nature of yourself from the special person. These are peculiarities that you and the special person share in common. For example, you have learned that the special person, like you, prefers cooking only during midnight.

Another is when you begin to compromise what you find as difficult to do so. Like habits that you do not want to give up no matter what criticisms you received from anyone. But not when you learned that that habit turns off the special person.

A good sign of falling in love is when you begin to be interested on things you are not used to. Example, you do not usually go to the library, but because the special person spends most of his time in the library, you even enrolled yourself as volunteer for library works.

One indicator is when the special person has what you hate most, but you rationalized for it. You know that you hate socializing with someone who smokes. But for the first time in your life, you heard yourself saying, "It is alright. He (she) is not a chain smoker. He (she) must be pressured. He (she) will change, I am sure."

You start to market yourself where he hangs up. You begin to join clubs which the special person belongs to and starts to contribute whatever you got. Your objective is not to become popular within the club, but to let the special person know about you, without him or her knowing that you are interested of him or her.

You deliver a lot of body language. Not for the purpose of letting the special person know you are interested of him or her, but to know if he or she is interested of you. This includes offering assistance, and sending good reminders like work assignments.

Your thought patterns also change. You begin to examine your words, deeds and intentions according to what benefit it will bring to the special person.

Last but not the least; you get a new hairstyle and wardrobe, check your weight regularly, and smile more than your usual smiles.

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