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Why is it hard for a man to understand a woman?

I have love in my heart for the subject of woman. It is they that make our lives as men possible. After all they are our mothers, daughters and best friends. It would show wisedom of we men if we keep in mind we would be non-existence without them. Often our references to women are less than complimentary, especially in moment of anger. We must know that life as a quality experience would be dull and meaningless without both man and women. The quality of that experiences is solely dependent on the quality of our communications with one another. But this is true no matter the gender. We are humans and it is we that make up the population called "people". We are not "alien sexed" beings.

I listened to conversations among both males and females about "men" and "women" that implied such a view. On occasion I get the idea that each group possess a hidden hope to fulfil. They each act as if they wished there were a third sexual group from which to select. It is almost as if they believe truly desire another sexual group is needed to satisfy their carnal desires in order to achieve happiness. This group of course would have to be outside of the gay community; an independent sexual category that possess what "sexual organic physicalities" that are "missing" in men and women. What those organs would be be, I don't know and I am sure I would not like to witness them.

I have sat through conversations, listening to the statements, "the trouble with men is" and "the trouble with women is" etc. Well, who else could there be to have trouble with? Of course, women are a problem to understand! Of course, men are a problem to understand! Consider this idea, when a female experiences natural bleeding every month, this is mark of "life giving". When a male experiences bleeding not only is it "unnatural" but is a sign of pain and the possibility of death! Talk about a different point of view. Note that both views are natural for the respect genders. It is this "problem causing pair" (male and female) that gives life to each of us, both figuratively and literally. No births can take place without them. If either of them totally vanished we would have not life, or fun, no challenges and no children; thus no you and me!

I would suggest that the "child bearing ability" of women contributes greatly to the perceptions of we what we call life. Men can never have a clue of how significant the dynamics of child birth contributes to and influencing how women feel. This experience affects the


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