by Kendall Blair

Created on: September 29, 2008   Last Updated: November 10, 2010

When considering the man you would like to marry, my advice would be to look to your best friend. Which qualities make this person your perfect partner? Husband and Wife doesn't always equal happily ever after. That said, it can. When you put one another first, and consider the other persons feelings in every decision, then you are more apt to become, remain, and forever be best friends.

After the leap of faith that we call marriage, it is time to work out the sloppy details. Your partner in life is along for the ride whether it is a roller coaster or a smooth boat ride; it is in your best interest to enjoy the scenery. There is a lesson learned in all of the bumps along the way. Once you have overcome your struggle, you can look beside you and there they are. Man and Wife were meant to be closest friends. Having a partner with you in every situation gives persons strength. The bond cannot be broken and therefore the two of you are a force to be reckoned with.

When all is said and done, it is so great to be able to enjoy one another's company. After all, every day can't be spontaneous and loud. Having a partner in life to relish in those quite nights is the epitome of bliss. Spending time by the fire and savoring a nice glass of wine can only be done with your closest friend. Having that someone there for you in all situations, whether it is by your side at the hospital, or dancing in the kitchen to your favorite tune, these things are best shared with your closest friend.

Another overlooked feature between man and wife is having a true confidante. Most people could care less about your every thought and desire. Try telling a man on the street corner that you yearn for children, or your back aches. Sharing all of the details of your day with the person you love most is truly rewarding. Having someone there for you that will not judge and will just simply listen is an outlet that is sometimes taken for granted. So cherish your relationship with your closest friend. If you do so, you will live and die a happier person. This is what we live for.

So if nothing else take this advice with you, consider your closest friend, is he or she your partner in life? If not, reconsider where you stand with your partner. Make it your goal to put him or her first and regain that closeness. Your relationship will strive and you will be rewarded in the end. After all, Man and wife is the closest friendship.

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