by Tammy Lee White

Created on: September 26, 2008

Using the potty is a requirement for school. It's a milestone for parents and children. Each child is unique and will learn their own way, but there are useful hints that can help. Before taking your toddler to shop for underwear, see my list to help you get started.

1. Watch for cues- Look for signs that your child is ready. Are they able to dress by themselves? Do they let you know when their diaper needs changing? Showing an interest in the potty is a sign they are ready!

2. Let them watch- Children learn many things by observing their parents. Let them watch when you use the bathroom. This helps them to see what the toilet is for. They may even ask you to try!

3. Potty seat- Small children can be afraid to use an adult sized toilet. They may be scared they will slip and fall in. Purchase a potty seat or chair to make them feel comfortable. You won't have to hold them and you can buy fun designs!

4. Use underwear- Whenever possible use underwear at home. It helps your child to know they have peed. Any accidents with poop you should dump in the toilet. It shows your child what the bathroom is for!

5. Appropriate clothing- When you are potty training your child use appropriate clothing. Dress them in pants with no zippers or buttons. Overalls are definitely a bad choice of outfit. Undressing quickly is important for toddlers!

6. Frequent attempts- Place your child on the potty frequently throughout the day. Especially after eating or sleeping. Having positive experiences will aid in their training. Try to remember their regular times!

7. Limit liquids- Limit the amount of drinks your child is having after dinner until they sleep. Children have small bladders and sleep really soundly. Using the bathroom at night takes practice!

8. Use rewards- Don't punish your child for making mistakes. Use rewards for making an effort. The prize doesn't have to be anything big. A sticker or candy works well. Don't bribe!

9. Nightlight- Use a nightlight in the hallway and your child's bathroom. It helps them get to the potty at night. Use a monitor in your bedroom to listen for noise. Teach your child to call you for help!

10. Extras-When you are training your child give them the tools they will need. Show them what is required in the bathroom. They may need a stool to reach sinks and towels. Stock your bathroom with wipes for their hands!

Using the potty is your child's choice. You don't have control of their bladder. You need to relax and be patient with your child. Offer tools that will help them to learn. Good luck!

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