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When your marriage is on the edge of a divorce, you may be frustrated. However, the first thing that you need to think is whether your marriage is worth your efforts to make a reconciliation with your spouse. If so, you, most likely, will choose to save the marriage. How to save your marriage when it is going to fall apart?

* Calm down

Don't jam your head with emotions, keep calm, and find the ways to get marriage back on the right track. Don't make things worse. Most of us will lose head at this time, and tend to be angry easily. The results are that we will find more frequent quarrels, more and more irresponsible words, even fights like cats and dogs The couples are easy to neglect their children at this moment. So, remember to keep calm, and don't make things worse. Try to find solutions to make up the wounded marriage. Therefore, when you find that your marriage meets some problems, which will cause the failure of your marriage, think what you should do. Are you afraid of living on by yourself, and be a single parent? Most likely, there are worries about the uncertainty of your future if you choose to get divorced. So long as there is a chance for you to save your marriage, you are wise enough not to give up your marriage. You should not say die to your marriage easily, should you? So, try your best to think of something that you can do to save your marriage. Don't make yourself in a mood that you are going to eat anyone you see. This is to help you to have a peaceful mind. You can practice Yoga or any exercises that can give you a hand to keep calm. This is the first point. Whatever will happen, be calm. Only when you are in a peaceful mind, you can have a clear idea about what you will do next. Find whatever you can do to keep yourself calm to be able to think clearly. This is very important. If you cannot control yourself, find a good friend who can keep your secret to ask him or her for help. There may be good ideas to make up your marriage, too.

* Sit down and find solutions

Brainstorm the things that you can think out about the problems of your marriage. Less attention to your wife or husband or children, lack of life excitement, sexual indifference, etc., just think out all you can. This is to help you to find out the problems. Make a list of them on a piece of paper and try to list them in order again on another. Don't let your husband or wife take part in this activity before you have a clear mind of how to save your marriage. Then, analyze

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