by Monica Allen

Created on: January 13, 2007   Last Updated: May 04, 2007

Going out to dinner can be fun and exciting, or intimidating, depending on your circumstances. Maybe you're on a first date or anniversary. Could be that your just out with a few work buddies or a group of friends you haven't seen in some time. Either way, I am going to give you the low down on proper etiquette for dining out. And what makes me an expert, you might ask. I've been in the service industry for 11 years. I've worked at some of the top restaurants in Austin and currently employed at a renowned five-star hot spot.

One: RELAX. Dining out is supposed to be enjoyable. Don't get up tight or try to calm your nerves by excessive drinking if there is a wait. Both of these things could detour your evening to a quick and unpleasant experience really fast.

Second: DRESS APPROPIATELY. If you want to dress casual it's okay, but don't wear ratty clothes. Dress to impress. Ladies and gentlemen this is your night to shine. Get dolled up and feel sexy or handsome. Ladies this is a great opportunity to show off those legs. Major tip: Remember that leaving more to desire is a sign of true class.

Third: DON'T BE PUSHY WITH THE HOSTESS. By being insistent you will not get a table faster. Be nice and understanding. It is not their fault there is a long wait. They're following policy (and most don't make enough to listen to your whining). Is slipping a tip okay? Of course, but be sly about it - don't flaunt money in their face. They can't make the other thirty people waiting for a table mad at them.

Fourth: LET YOUR SERVER GUIDE YOU. Their job is to know the menu, food and beverage. Ask questions if you are uncertain about a particular item or drink. Trust me you will not look stupid. By showing your server respect you will guarantee a nice evening. Most servers will do what they can to accommodate you. If you have a food allergy inform them upfront. They can provide menu options around it. A good rapport with your server can have lasting results (hint: if you return).

Fifth: DON'T DRINK TOO MUCH. Slow down, enjoy. You're there for the food, drink, and company - not just the drink. If your paying an estimated $50-$80 a head, wouldn't you want to remember the experience? I would. If you do happen to go beyond your limit ask for a cab to be called or more importantly accept one if the establishment offers it. Most places will pay for your cab ride if needed.

Sixth: NO INSULTS OR VULGARITIES. This should be common sense. Stay away from conservations about politics, religion,

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