by Pat Gray

Created on: September 09, 2008   Last Updated: April 15, 2009

Making the decision to euthanize (or more euphemistically "put to sleep") a beloved dog is probably the most difficult and heart wrenching thing a pet-parent will ever have to do. But, however difficult it is, it is too often the kindest decision you can make for your furry friend.

Working at a kennel with many "customers" who have been coming in for years, this is a frequent discussion - "we hate to do it, but he's just not himself" or "she's just not eating anymore, she sleeps all the time and she's starting to have accidents in the house." And we can see the changes too: a dog that was previously happy-go-lucky becomes a little crabby, the hearing isn't so good, we're asked to prepare special (sometimes outlandishly elaborate!) meals - and yes, the number of "accidents" increase.

And as dog lovers and dog owners ourselves, my colleagues and I have all had to make the same decision - some of us several times, and with dogs of varying ages and states of health.

Advising others and making the decision for ourselves is never easy (nor should it be), and no one rule covers all circumstances. Having said that, there are only two bits of advice that seem to hold true in all cases: 1) no matter what or when you decided, you will always look back and regret your decision, 2) no matter what you do or when, your dog will not love you any less.

So with no hard and fast rules, without being able to lesson the weight of responsibility, I can only offer the following questions to help guide your decision:

1) Is your dog still enjoying life?

Even very elderly dogs can enjoy life - a stroll around the block rather than the neighborhood, a nap in the sun, special treats or even being allowed to sleep on the sofa. But when the joy goes out of life - food is no longer interesting, the toys are left untouched and the offer of walks are refused, perhaps it is time to let go.

2) Does your dog require extreme measures to keep them alive?

Strong, potentially harmful painkillers, regular and stressful treatments (e.g. dialysis) or sedation may keep your dog alive or out of OBVIOUS discomfort, but while these measures may be keeping your dog alive, they may be killing their spirit and their quality of life.

If you must make a decision in an emergency situation - an sudden illness, an accident or near-fatal injury, short-term extreme measures may be quite reasonable, even if their effectiveness is not guaranteed.

3) Is your resentment/frustration in dealing with your dog's condition harming

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