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start learning English in elementary school, so a majority of the French speak at least a little English, although many are shy about using it in front of native English speakers. But with just a little encouragement, they will do their best.)

Although you may not be lucky enough to do more than visit the major tourist attractions, one of the best ways to experience real French hospitality is to try to get to know the people.

If you make even the slightest effort to speak French - then the warmth, hospitality and generosity of spirit that I've seen time and time again in the French comes out. If you don't speak enough to carry on a conversation, or the person you're talking with honestly can't understand you, don't be surprised if they keep asking other people, until they find someone who speaks English enough to answer your questions and help you.

What You Need To Know About French Manners

One thing you need to know about French manners - politeness and correctness are ingrained - which means they are not used to personal questions, and it is normal to speak formally - using "vous" rather than the familiar form of "tu" when you first meet. (In fact, it can literally take years before people use "tu" to each other.) So if you don't want to be perceived as rude, don't ask personal questions when you're meeting someone for the first time. Taboo subjects include how much money someone makes, what they think of their boss or generally talk about politics, religion or controversial subjects. And to avoid embarrassing your new friends, use "vous" until you're asked otherwise.

When you're getting to know someone, many French people may seem quiet and reserved - and in fact, many don't like to be the center of attention, and they don't want to be perceived as "showing off" - which is another reason some Americans can give off the wrong impression, especially if they're talking loudly, making jokes or generally acting differently than everyone else in the room. (Although you may be secretly admired for it, it's better to "do as the Romans do", when in French company.)

You may notice that the French are very affectionate when greeting each other - and you, once they've gotten to you know you a little. (Hand shaking is usually reserved only for business - and then only when meeting the first time, or between non-French people.)

It is normal for people to kiss each other when saying hello and good-bye - even the men. If you're in Paris, you may get kissed 3 times - first one

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