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Is there any biblical support for dating?

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There isn't any direct biblical support for dating, however, there are principals regarding relationship between the sexes. Dating is for seeking a marriage mate. If you are having a close association with the opposite sex, what are your reasons? There could only be two, the Bible upholds the union of marriage, it does not uphold extra martial sex. It is specifically condemned and is referred to as fornication. 1st.Corinthians 6:9 classes fornicators with idolaters, adulterers, men who lie with men and men kept for unnatural purposes as well as greedy people, thieves, drunkards and extortioners. The scripture says these types of people will not inherit The Kingdom of God. The Bible does not forbid adults or teens from being together. It is best if one keeps their association in groups or at least with other people, where the possibility of normal desires will be kept under control. If you want to have dinner together, you might speak to one another on the phone and make arrangements to meet at a specific place and a specific time. This works well for adults as well as young people. You might meet one another at the park, at a public place, where there are other people around, and the library. You could meet at the theater, go jogging, hiking, boating, football games and the list goes on and on. There are so many things you can do, except nestled together on a dark moon light night, with romantic music, and lit candles. Leave these things for engagement and marriage. You will be so happy to present yourself to your husband, and the husband to his wife, as chaste and clean before God. To some this may sound old-fashioned and out of date, remember, God's Word has not changed since the beginning of time. It has been and always be the same. It will never be out of date. again I emphasize, these are principals, stemming from Divine Commands. Maybe, I should have said, no, the Bible does not support dating. That would have been incorrect, because it does not speak against it. Once again, I get back to the principals surrounding relationships between two people. Once you have been with a person long enough to consider them for a marriage mate and there is an engagement, then you might consider dating, this is the way you will learn the person well enough for marriage. Remember, being the humans, that we are, being alone creates arousal and desires which are hard to fight, therefore it is advisable to keep being alone to a minimum. Further proof that dating was not


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