by Gary Maclean

Created on: August 31, 2008   Last Updated: January 21, 2010

HOW TO SEDUCE A MAN

Not that I would want to seduce a man, I'm a man, but I do think I have some pretty good ideas on how to seduce one. I know what would seduce me; it's been done.

Before we discuss this subject what do you think "to seduce" really means? Does it just mean to lure a man into bed for sexual gratification? Well, that's part of it but the whole meaning is even more diabolical than that;

One meaning of "to seduce" is "to persuade to disobedience or disloyalty." That suggests to me that to seduce a man one must convince that man to disobey someone or something or to be disloyal to someone. Perhaps convince that man to cheat on his wife?

A second meaning of "to seduce" is "to lead astray usually by persuasion or false promises." This is very closely related to that first definition. A married man has a path already laid out for him. He knows which direction he must go and he knows what his destination really is. If a woman were to seduce that man she would be convincing him to take a wrong turn or to go a different direction than the one he should be concentrating on. She would do this by lying to him or making promises she cannot keep.

One more definition of "to seduce", or "to carry out the physical seduction of" is "to entice to sexual intercourse." To seduce a man is to tempt him into the bed for sex, whether he should be there or not. Now, I'm a man and I know how weak we men really are. It simply does not take much to lure us into your bed. That is where we want to be anyway. If you are actually going to try to convince us to do something we really want to do anyway, then your job will be just that much easier.

If we look at these three definitions in combination we would have a pretty negative denotation of "to seduce." What it really seems to mean is to tempt a man, by whatever means is necessary, into having sex with someone he should not be having sex with. Not a good thing at all. We men get in trouble for that sort of thing all the time.

Now the question stands; "How do I seduce a man?" The answer is simple and should be right in front of you. There is a certain mystique in being "naughty" if you know you are not supposed to be. There is that unmistakable tingle one gets in the pit of his stomach when he has done something bad and he knows it. Ladies, your first rule in seducing a man is to find something you can make him be disobedient about.

It can be anything; it doesn't have to be straight to sex. This is just the beginning. Just

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