by Nathawyn Proby

Created on: August 25, 2008   Last Updated: September 02, 2010

Parenting is probably one of the most complex situations in todays' society. The guide implemented is suggestive to the age of the child or adult. There are combative reprisals often with losing opponents on both sides. Parenting past conception does not come natural.

First and foremost you got to put God in their life irrespective of your beliefs. Sooner or later when you are not around they will need constructive spirituality.

Some of the reasons are listed below:

Parents spend more time talking at the child than to the child. Parents assume the child has an idea of his/her place in society.Adults without consent consult your child not necessarily in the right direction. Parents do not readily admit they can be wrong.

Child is left with everyone to raise other than parents. Parents are not concerned or care more for careers or self-indulgences. Parents are alcoholics or drug addicts. Parents had unsuccessful parenting. Parents could not afford to be parents which includes food and shelter. Parents had accessibility to education for their children that was inadequate. Morays and moralistic values have not been instilled.

Jealousy may exist between parent and child. Father is angry because he worked so hard for Junior to sit around and learn. Junior has become an executive and dad reminds him had it not been for him ,he would not have succeed. Son is accused of embezzlement or some terrible crime and he becomes an outcast. All of a sudden all of his attributs are disclaimed.

Case scenario is that there are so many vultures in the form of parents, friends, and neighbors. The schools are not attempting to offer all children quality education. There are educators more interested in salary than teaching. There are police officers who would rather arrest your child than reprimand your child.

There are fathers leaving their seeds everywhere and blaming the woman. Responsibility has to come from both parents. society could save money in the long run instead of spending funds on the short train.

Some family member insist on telling their point of ,"no view" and more hell break loose.

The main thing is not being interested or listening to what your child has to say. When you are not listening someone else version of life may be invited.

Mother remembers all the mistakes in her life and is ready for daughter to make the same mistakes. Daughter is successful and mother is angry because had it not been for the daughter.

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