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Marriage or relationship is supposed to be something both partners must share and enjoy. It should be an exciting experience for people who have decided to be together. It is supposed to be something to cherish and something that is very memorable. But then sometimes a relationship goes the wrong way and problems arise leading to violence. It cannot be prevented. There are people who become violent when they get really, really ired but there are people who are violent in nature which is something that should be reconsidered. A person who is violent in nature is hard to change and you could be putting yourself in danger when you stay with this person.

When your partner is violent, you need to know why and you need to see through it if it is by nature that your partner is violent. In a serious relationship, one could not just walk away. There are things to consider before thinking of walking away. Consider first what advantages it would do to both of you when you walk away. If your partner hits you once only, then you need to consider things properly. Tell your partner that violence is not part of what you want in a relationship but if violence becomes a day to day event then the need to walk away is advisable.

It is not easy to just forget everything and walk away from a relationship. Even in a relationship where there is a serious problem, walking away is not an easy thing to do. Violent partners often say sorry after the violent event has been over but if it is always repeated then the best way to do is brace yourself and walk away.

Walking away may be the only solution when your partner is violent. Rather than waiting for the time when the situation gets worse it is better to leave. I have seen relationships being ruined because of violence and it is not a pleasant thing to remember. It is really a very hard situation, especially when there are children who are involved. It is usually the children who are most affected when a relationship breaks. But when violence is getting serious children would understand.

When violence is too much, forgiveness could not be considered anymore. There is no excuse for your partner to be violent when there is a problem because as matured people, talking is always a good way to put things in order. Violence is hard to forgive especially when it is serious. Although walking away is often very hard to do, it is still the best way to avoid the situation from getting worse. Walk away and if it is so painful in your part then you have to teach yourself to forget your partner. Make yourself realize that you don't deserve the kind of partner you have. Only then will you be able to accept everything.

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