by Tami Port MS

Created on: August 22, 2008   Last Updated: February 24, 2009

What most of us understand to be "stalking" are the well-publicized incidents involving celebrities, but you don't need to be famous to become a stalker's fixation. Here's what you need to know in order to protect yourself from this crime of obsession.

WHAT IS STALKING? Stalking is a crime of obsession, and is often associated with different types of psychopathology, including psychosis and severe personality disorders. Depending on the stalker, behavior may range from overtly aggressive threats and actions, to repeated phone calls, letters or approaches. Stalking harassment may go on for years, causing the victim to exist in a constant state of stress and fear. The violent aspects of stalking behavior often escalate over time, and in extreme cases, can end in murder (Douglas 1998).

STALKING BEHAVIOR : There are anti-stalking laws in place, both federal and state, designed to protect victims of stalkers. Under these laws, perpetrators can be charged with stalking for repeatedly:

* Following or appearing within the sight of another

* Approaching or confronting another individual in a public or private place

* Appearing at the work place or residence of another

* Entering or remaining on an individual's property

* Contacting a person by telephone

* Sending postal mail or e-mail to another.

STALKING DANGER : Too often victims do not fully appreciate the true danger of being stalked, and this can be a fatal mistake. If you feel uncomfortable with the repeated advances, gifts or communications of an "admirer," trust your instincts, and always err or the side of caution. All stalking is a crime and all stalkers should be considered dangerous (Douglas 1998).

David Beatty, Executive Director of Justice Solutions, Inc. and former Director of Public Policy for the National Victim Center, observes that stalking, "is one of the rare opportunities where a potential murderer raises his hand and says I'm gonna be killing somebody.' Stalking provides an opportunity to intervene in what seems to be, in many cases, an inevitable escalation towards violence and murder."

EVIDENCE OF STALKING : Every situation is different. There are various types of stalkers and no set anti-stalking guidelines, so each victim must use his or her own judgment as to what actions to take. But don't go it alone. Seek support from your friends and family. Whether or not you plan to file formal charges, report the harassment to your local law enforcement agency. It is important to build your case against the stalker

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