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Created on: August 20, 2008 Last Updated: August 22, 2008
Tips For Dealing With a Mother In Law. Now this is a rough article to tackle. the moment you
attach the words "In Law" to describe whom a person is supposed to be. It is as if you
have to be kind to them in fear of some form of marriage police coming to your house
dragging you out side in your p.js and flogging you for not getting along with your mom in
law. If you ever wondered when most divorces really began. It usually starts with the
words "and say hello to my mom." Now I know not all mother in laws are bad. specially if
they reside in another state, maybe locked away or at least look like Morgan Fairchild. But
of course as my luck had it, mine lived in the same house, would probably never be committed
and looked like she could possibly go three rounds with Mike Tyson. And to top it off was
from Arkansas, which really wasn't a bad thing since eight different relatives all resided
within three bodies.(Uncle Nate was also brother and cousin. While Aunt Perl was also the
grandma and half sister) Please, do not get me wrong I really tried to be nice to her. I
figured even the daughter of Satan could use a little kindness now and then. But sometimes no
matter how hard you try it never helps. And I really tried. A fellow at work told me one
time he had sleep apnea, When I asked him what it was he informed me it was where you quit
breathing at night. I replied "Huh, my mother in law has the same problem... but I always
feel guilty and pull the pillow off her head at the last second!" two weeks out of the month
for the last three years, she believed I had saved her life. she awoke to me sitting on her
and pounding on her chest screaming "Breath Damn You!" of course I know I shouldn't be making
fun of her, she was almost in a head on collision yesterday... but i did not pay the man
enough and he swerved at the last second... Who you gonna tell? all you can do is kiss the
two hundred and fifty good-bye and think of another plan. (Just Kidding!) But dealing with a
mother in law is hard, I just try and remember that she is just trying to protect her
daughter and that what she is doing to drive us crazy, to her is no more than a mother doing
what she has to do as a parent. Even though her daughter is now thirty-five has two kids and
is working, finishing collage and managing a household. Can we all say "Let go Mom" So you
want a tip for dealing with your mother in law? Just remember it is the same formula as
it is with any relationship. Always treat a woman as God intended, like she is special
Then show them comfort without judgment... compassion without expectation... and love
without measure... Now if that still does not work, a blow gun and non lethal knock out
darts can easily be found on line, with no questions asked.
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