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Exposing the destructive nature of negative talk

by Jamerson Rising

Created on: August 19, 2008

Negative talk what power simple words put together hold. What magik that words can contain and unleash be careful. Words can inspire or crush the intended victims to pieces. It's the mindset behind the words this negative attitude has caused more wars more misery in the world. When a child is angry do you shout more anger back at them to control them. This only teaches them that more stronger anger can control their weaker anger. I'm not saying not to reprimand such behavier but to be very careful in the way you go about it. In a childs eyes this is what they really learn how you can weild such power with anger and fear. I see people all the time yelling at their kids with swear words and put downs. If that is their teaching method that's what they will get. A very angry adult who solves his problems with stronger more powerful anger. This is the mindset of the world. This magik of words have cast spells on the young people of the world. We must find a better way in the use of words to be more positive to encourage and inspire the young. Especially before they reach the age of nine years old. By then they have set their coarse in life to be good or evil and closed their ears to adults and authority. The way they think is influenceable by the way we use our words around them. When we talk about the neighbors and our friends and the people at our work. If this is negative talk. Especially negative remarks that they hear coming out of our mouths this shows them that this is the way to think and behave. This is very hard to change. Have you ever tried to go through a whole day without saying anyones name or saying anything negative about anyone. Virtually impossible right yet the more positive we speak and the more happy we maintain ourselves. The more tremendous the effect will be on people. People will notice the change of our attitude towards them and the world. Our friends will like being around us more their spirits will be more uplifted. Young people will reap the most benefits for they will learn to respect and be kind to each other. It all comes down to how we treat our world. These words that we use is the strongest tool we have to change this. If we use our own speech wisely it will spread through the comunity. Impossible you say perhaps. But keep trying and those around you will share a much happier and healthier life with this understanding that words do have a power all their own to create our world for the better or for the worst use them wisely. There has been so much destruction done in this world all because someone said something the other guy didn't like. Good and evil plain and simple. What words do you choose to use?

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