by Lester Nixon

Created on: August 18, 2008

I feel for several reasons I will not go into here and now there are more women than men in our world. It seems to me that many women (so called.) are settling for men substitutes and pretenders. I feel women that do this willingly do so. They are looking for financial and sexual gratification from these so called men. They desperately seek and need attention and entertainment from any jerk they can find or that comes into their life!

How sad and ironic how many times I have heard so many women say (they need and or want a man!) I have heard many women in conversation admit (They want their wallets, beds and lives filled by some man). There seems to be little discriminating as to the qualities men ( so called by these women) these fellows must have.Too many people seem to have a distorted since of what a man and or woman is.

Many males today seem to have either been poorly raised or departed from the values they were raised with. I can also say the same for many women.Too many people today think marriage is a joke. The perverted social arrangements they enter by choice are substitutes for real relationships. There was a time when one had a wife, husband, boy, girl friend, fiance. Now there are states with same sex so called marriages. Many today just live together not bothering to even consider marriage. Too many men are irresponsible men, husbands and fathers. Many lack positive male role models or fathers in their lives! Then on the other hand there are so many little girls (emotionally, spiritually) in women's' bodies calling themselves women!

Many fellows today do not AR all care they have children they do not care about nor try to support!Men and woman have lots of fun conceiving children , however when the babies are born they do not want the responsibility of caring for the children, dump them off on others, so they can go have more fun!All too often these dudes leave women and their families to care for the children they ( donated sperm the fun way) fathered! They also may leave heartbreak a financial burden and a disease or more with a wife, girlfriend and several women! In these times much the same can be said about women.

In these (lets blame all others but never myself culture) I feel it is every ones responsibility to be a man or a woman and be responsible for themselves, their own lives and their actions! One should never do and or say any thing if they can not back it up or be responsible for it. We should have more real relationships and no more (or at least a lot less) of this juvenile, sex crazed, animal house, game playing nonsense called relationships as we have far too much of today.

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