Ooh, you're so dirty! There is nothing better than some risqu interaction when communicating with your loved one. Whether you're a seasoned lover or just starting out in the bedroom, talking dirty can add spice to any relationship. In the beginning when you and a lover are just starting out a lot of things are unknown about each other. While being intimate talking dirty is something you have to ease into. The first few times should not be too vulgar. You will scare your partner right out of the bed. What I've learned in my own relationship is it's not just the dirty talk that works up the moment. It's touching certain areas while talking dirty that adds to the arousal.
I know when I first started to talk dirty with my girlfriend it was just minor cute sexual passes here and there while changing it up too. Repeating the same routine can limit the excitement overtime so to lessen this I enjoy trying new things to spice up the relationship. My creative ambition has to take the initiative to enhance the arousal a step further. Fortunately for me, my girlfriend will join me and assist in the excitement. This way both of us can contribute to making our experience more enjoyable.
Starting out slow can be something as easy as telling your partner they look sexy. Then you can ease into something like, "I want to rip off their clothes with my teeth". Follow this statement by actually giving a little tug of their clothing with your teeth. In addition to that is making loud moans of pleasure, to let your partner know when you like the sensation you are felling when you are fooling around with each other. You can never be afraid to guide them to your pleasure zones or else they may never find them.
Why not be absurd and surprisingly mischievous? For instance, when I'm feeling aroused I will rub my girlfriends breasts while calling her a sex fiend and maybe even giving her tush a smacking. At the time she may not have been aroused, but when I make a move she is instantly turned on by the feeling and the words. So you see it's the combination of the two that react well together. Over time you will learn your partner's likes and dislike and you can apply them when you want to get frisky.
My girlfriend and I will also come up with code words because when you are out in public you don't want to be inappropriate around another people. For example, if we are in a group setting and we want to split to get some action one of us will casually say "Babe, remember we have to go to the bank and make a deposit. Which actually means, let's have sex. It's fun to play around and tease one another by turning each other on when we know there is nothing we can do about it in public. Well, there is always a hiding place if we can't resist ourselves. Anyway, all we do is discreetly touch each other and say things like "ooh you want me" or "too bad you can't take me right here and now". Little sayings like these can add temptation and arousal before any action even occurs.
There are lots of things you can do to fuel the fire. You just have to be willing to try new things and have fun. I hope my experiences can motivate you to be more flirtatious and experimental in your own relationship, as they have helped us grow in our sexual relationship. Or at the very least put you in a more exciting realm of passion