by Bryant Nix

Created on: August 15, 2008   Last Updated: August 29, 2008

That was great! Thank you so much it was nice to have met you! If only it were that easy. Usually your emotions and the situation may be a little awkward the next morning or after the deed is done. Not knowing the person can make it hard to communicate not knowing who they are. You are either asking yourself if you should be nice and request their number or you are thinking the night was such a blur and wondering what the hell happened to you last night while scanning the room for the nearest exit sign. On occasion you may be fooled into thinking you found a great partner and the other person is just looking for some quick action to satisfy their personal desire.

So why is it important to use etiquette with a stranger that you have no intention of seeing again? The same reason you should have etiquette towards anyone. We are all of the same kind and there is no reason for you to treat someone without respect. I mean come on; you are sharing the most intimate essence that only you possess. There are truly no rules of engagement when using sex with someone as a novelty as you look right past the willingness of compatibility to exploiting each others privacy for self gratification. The sincerity is hard to gather considering you don't know the person.Remember you are sharing your most valued possession with a complete stranger, "Yourself". That is not something you want to just give away to anyone. Make them work for it.

The "one night stand" is portrayed defiantly by individuals and their desires. Everyone has different objectives coming into the situations. The one thing in common is the pleasure. Both parties are seeking pleasure. There are two sides to every story of course. The most popular issues are you do not know the person. Some want the anogumis and discreet, while others go out and have sex on the dance floor in Mexico never to see each other again. Not caring who or what is around them. Sex is a powerful desire.

Maybe you're in a relationship that is not satisfying your urges. Neither person cares to know about the other person. They could be lying to each other, creating their own fantasy. You could get hurt, so protect yourself. How about the afterward breakdown realizing it was a big mistake caused by the need of passion. If it is a stranger in this case, make sure they have a ride home or you have a ride home. Some will want to get out as soon as they can. Those beer goggles can really distort your vision. Most of them are booze related which releases

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