by Buddy Pross

Created on: August 13, 2008   Last Updated: August 26, 2008

You come upon a young male in one room and a young female in another. Both have a phone setting not far from them set to speaker phone. Saying things such as "I see you walk into the restaurant wearing a pleated mini skirt and loose fitting halter top that barely covers your chest" Normally you may think you were intruding on a scene of adultery or somebody having called one of those nine hundred numbers advertised on late night TV. But what if i told you you were seeing a normal night in my home and since we started calling each other our love life had never been better? Talking dirty just heated up an already volcanically hot relationship for us. We were snuggling one night and she started saying some of the most lewd things I'd ever heard come out of her mouth. I could barely control myself after she had done this for a little bit I could barely reign myself in. We had discussed doing this the week before. But i wasn't sure until she started that she had wanted to. As I said earlier on we already had a very active sex life this just added another level to it. I suggest it to anyone looking to add in a little spice to their bedroom life plus you may find a fantasy you had for awhile, but were afraid to bring up to your partner is one that they have had as well. Though you may want to set some guide lines so you don't go over board with your talk and touch on some harmful ideas. Nine times out of ten you do not want to mention ex relationships. Family or any particular sore subjects that you or them may have had to deal with in the past. Because of dirty talk I have found out exactly what she wanted in and out of the bedroom and how she wanted it. Plus it was an opportunity for me to tell her some things I would like to do as well after having done this talking for awhile we decided to act out some of the situations. We had came up with and man did it fire us up even more it's been going on nine years now and anytime our relationship starts losing some of the flame. We just think of some of the nastiest and most obscene stuff we can and go at it verbally over the phone or computer. Describing the situation we have in mind and turn each other on beyond belief. Some times just for added spice we have a couple who we are super close friends with. Call us up and we set our phones on speaker and decide whether the males or females are going to run this show. Or a combination of the two and describe in lewd detail what we are going to do to each other and act out exactly what the other parties is saying to do. This adds in the excitement of hearing another female or male or both having a grand time as well as yourself. Though there are some don'ts in these scenarios most would know them before they ever stepped over those lines such as if your partner is the jealous type don't describe a situation were they catch you messing around with the neighbor and interrupt you and never go further in your phone or net discussions than you would be willing to go in life. Always try and keep it realistic or as far fetched as you like to each there own at least that's what me and my wife say.

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