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One-night-stand etiquette

First off make sure both parties know that it is going to be a one night stand and are in general OK with this. Cover whether this is going to be a one time deal or a long term off and on again ordeal and yes i mean ordeal. Anytime you get involved with anyone in an open ended relationship it is an ordeal you should treat them as a partner no matter what. Though if your looking for a one night stand then head to the local meat market whether it is a bar dance club or grocery center. They all work to the same purpose though a one night stand is seen as a bad thing it can be a great confidence booster. As i said earlier make sure to lay ground rules at the get go so no one is going in expecting more than what there is to get out of it just be honest on all fronts and who knows you may find your true love on a one night stand. Though if your in a relationship already then they are a real bad idea it's impolite to your partner and impolite to the one you have the one night stand with. As to staying over night with the other parties that matters on how far you want to indulge the one night stand. After all are you having an affair or just looking to get sexual release and if you are in a relationship already then why are you even considering a one night stand? If you are in a relationship then maybe you aught to set up a rendezvous between you and your partner. One of you get a hotel room for the night and meet each other at the corner bar or such go back to the hotel room and do ya deeds. Then go home and the other stay at the hotel room. They are seen as a bad thing in most circles but can be a saving grace mattering on how they are gone about. Most couples at one time or another have considered it if not done it though if you plan on making it a long term affair it will most likely cause problems in your relationship. If you are the other person is in one no matter what though they will be perceived as a bad thing and both parties will be seen except by close friends as tramps. Most likely never mind the fact one night stands have been happening forever and will happen no matter what we do but the deed is all in the eye of the beholder. Personally i think one night stands can be an awesome experience as long as their done tastefully and politely. Don't go chasing another's partner and make sure all bases are covered. As in whether your going to spend the night and have brunch the next morning. Where your going after you meet and whether it's just going to be


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