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There is a basic way to look at your lower IQ men that helps you understand a man that drinks heavily or drugs a lot. You see men aren't dumb, they try to fit in with others who drink and drug and it literally makes them retarded. So you could sake that alcohol is a crippling disease when consume in large quantities.

There are two kinds of men: 1) Sacrificial and don't mean to be 2) Winners and can't be stopped.

The psychology of men is capable of understand almost anything but to understand a man you must understand a woman. A man has to make up his mind about sex, drugs and such. It is not good for him because it makes him uncertain, lazy and he puts off things until tomorrow. This is not good because men and women have a moral obligation to finish school and find something to do to earn a living.

Men tend to ponder on disaster striking instead of accepting what life hands out. That's because most men can't handle the word no. Rejection just crushes them like children. There are ways to deal with uncomfortable feelings. Most people wind up talking to a partner. This is not advisable because they tend to become involved romantically. Most men can't solve problems very well because they use their weakest qualities to help them solve things, thus men have poor judgment and they needed to be congratulated when they do well and shown understanding when they have trouble with their own understanding.

Men like women have needs they have to provide for such as Maslow's Hiarchy of Needs. The three division of the mind is the Id, Ego, and Super Ego. The Id controls and hunger, sex drive, etc... The Ego tells the man what reality is and seeks attention to satisfy a person.
The Super Ego is the part of the brain that deals with self esteem.
So what you want is to understand that a person is working constantly to reach self-actualization and thus is a competitor with both male and female in a sneaking way.
He might be a pompous brag, sweet and subtle, aggressive and dangerous but men can behave as well as misbehave. It just depends on if the man takes life serious enough or defeats himself before he even begins to travel down life lonely roads. Even though he has you, he can never get rid of that lonely stab of painful loneliness.

Men think that people are against them and sometimes they are, but these people need to be eliminated from their lives. Working can be a sore spot to any man looking to get ahead, be the boss, or make a substantial amount of money. Men are not stupid. They can think well when the threats are removed from their lives, but they need to be loved and complimented on a routine basic so they'll develop a healthy self-esteem. Women have to give of themselves, not be selfish and understand some times.

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