by Linda Sajiw

Created on: August 08, 2008

If you want to develop your own style you will need to have a great deal of trust in yourself and be willing to go beyond your comfort zone on a consistent basis. Having your own style means you will stand out in a crowd. Some people will like your style and some won't. There are huge industries built to steer you into choosing everything from particular brand name clothes to home furnishings.

Developing your own style takes a lot of courage for style goes beyond what clothes you wear and what colours you furnish your home with. A large part of our world focuses on style as having a certain image for pretty much every area of our lives.

Developing your own style encompasses this yet also means having a unique voice in this world. There will be times when you may not have anyone around that understands your sense of style yet if you are comfortable in your own skin this won't matter. If you are comfortable in your own skin you will also have people around you that will accept you and your style even if they don't understand or like it. The key is that you know and accept yourself. The only way you will know who you are is by doing an inner journey to discover those things and situations that nourish you from the inside out. Another way of saying this is to follow your heart.

Those things and situations that are for you will seem to be brighter and more magnetic to you than others. As you learn to heighten your awareness by following the intuitive flashes that come from within you, you start to follow a treasure map that comes from your Soul. As you awaken this connection with your Higher Self and live from these inner promptings you live with your own style as well as open pathways for others to develop their own unique style.
If you really want your own style be willing to stand strong in your own truth. Wear clothes that feel right for you even if they are not the current fashion trend. Have around you in your living space those things that support your current focus in life. As your life changes be willing to transform your physical environment to reflect where you currently are on your path in life.

Spend time by yourself just being. If you are always doing in the world then you won't have the time to hear the whispers, those subtle leads that open doors for you to share, grow, heal, evolve and love yourself more and also enables you to do the same with others.
How you are to develop your own style will be revealed to you the moment you have the thought to do

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