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or his kids. In fact, I was so thoughtless after we went out on our date I went to his house while his girlfriend was working her evening shift. And that's not the bad part. His oldest daughter came knocking on his bedroom door and he had to hide his naked body behind his
bedroom door to see what she wanted. That very moment I should have dressed myself and thanked him for the fun night and left. But no, after he was done talking to his daughter we continued. I was hurt, so therefore I did not care about anyone. Fooling around with this guy took place for over a year. To this day he and I been to the movies three times. I can name the movies just to show how horrible it was. We saw 16 Blocks, Miami Vice, and recently Iron man. From looking at the history of these movies it's like over a year we are able to get out. I was fine with being the other woman. I even told my friends about him. They even had the pleasure of meeting him. They were cool with our situation.

After a while I was beginning to be unhappy with our arrangement. Who wants to be linked to someone you cannot call, see or make spontaneous plans with? I didn't want that anymore. So I started distancing myself. I tried meeting someone on my own, that didn't work out. In fact it was so horrible I ended up going back to my friend. I tired to ignore the fact that, this was something I didn't want to happen. But I couldn't. I started working on keeping my distance and while doing that I got in contact with my ex. I just wanted to see how he was doing. Apparently, he was doing better than me. He had finally purchased a house and had his girlfriend of a few months living with him. Only because I know him, I knew something was missing. We talked about old times. We started reminiscing so much we winded up meeting and the next thing you know we were messing around. This one I didn't mind because I still loved this guy. I didn't care who he was with. I knew him way better than this girlfriend. I could tell just from looking at him how his diabetes was doing. How many women can tell that about their man (or former man)? Actually those who truly cared for their men.

We started messing around for a few months. He got caught out there. His girlfriend found his cell phone and read the text messages we exchanged. Allegedly he told her that she found what she was looking for and it the ball was in her court. So she decided to stay with him.
I didn't hear from him for about three months. Then he started calling, with

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