by Emese Tuza

Created on: August 05, 2008   Last Updated: August 13, 2008

Most women think they are easy to shop for, however, countless men can prove otherwise. For these men, the very thought of coming up with an anniversary gift their loved one would swoon over can be daunting. However, there is help on the way!

Whether you want to spend a little or a lot, start with assessing your girlfriend or wife's jewelry collection. Does she wear a lot of silver or gold? Is she partial to her diamonds (if she is, bad news, you are not getting off cheap) or does she like custom jewelry as well? Nothing says "I love you" to a woman more than a piece of jewelry she can wear everyday and be reminded of the one that gave it to her. Remember, this key piece doesn't necessarily have to be expensive. Red Envelope's website (www.redenvelope.com) has a lot of good anniversary jewelry gifts, whether it's your 6 months, or 6 years anniversary.

Is jewelry not her cup of tea? Another no fail gift is a spa gift certificate to her favorite relaxing spot. Whether a pedicure, a facial, or a makeover, women love to be pampered. Follow it up with a dinner at her favorite restaurant nearby and you will have a happy lady on your hands. Even if you are on a budget, you can give her a homemade coupon for a massage, or at least a foot rub, provided by you. Order a pizza, or better yet, make her favorite dish at home and she will be kissing the cook.

How about flowers? You can spend a lot and order a gorgeous bouquet to be delivered to her office or spend a little and buy a small flowering plant or bouquet at your local grocery store. She will appreciate the thought, especially if it is accompanied by a card, preferably not one that already has all the sentiments on it and all you do is sign it, but rather one that you write yourself. She will cherish it and hold on to it for years to come.

The bottom line is, whatever you do, do it from the heart and she will love you for remembering and wanting to celebrate in some special way. Believe me guys, just by showing you care, and put thought into the occasion will score you points. Good luck!

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